How TO APPROACH ELOPING-10 WAYS

elopement feedback from real couples.

MAKE THINGS HAPPEN IN NONTRADITIONAL WAYS.

“You can hire a videographerto capture some traditional moments.” Yes! Moments such as your first look, the first kiss, and the “I do’s” to share with family and friends." An heirloom 5-7 min highlight reelon Super 8 film+ digital cameras to rewatch over the next 50+ years, to share this frozen moment in time of love and celebation with future generations.

STEPPING AWAY FROM TRADITIONS CAN BE HARD AND THAT’S OKAY.

“It [eloping] was everything and more I could have hoped for because I mourned what I wasn’t going to be doing [the traditional route] and instead built something that was truly what we wanted.”Take the time to be sad you aren’t going to do what others always expected of you, then start to think about how you can create your special moments with those that are important to you.

NOT EVERYONE WILL BE SUPPORTIVE.

“Family kind of put us in a position that eloping might be the only stress free option. Also weddings nowadays are not cheap. We’re going to do a courthouse wedding then do a small reception dinner for about 10 people, including our parents and closest friends. Then leave a few days later for epic honeymoon.”

STILL SECRETLY WENT DRESS SHOPPING.

Yes! It doesn’t have to be secret. The best part of eloping is there is SO SHAME here. Going attire shopping locally with a group of friends is one way you can incorporate the people in your life if you’re opting for no guests at the elopement.

DECIDING TO HAVE A PARTY AFTERWARDS.

“We just hired a speakeasy and my Dad gave a quick speech before we went straight to cocktails and canapés (I got to wear my dress twice)”.

IT COST US EASILY HALF OF A TRADITIONAL WEDDING.

“We got a videographer, photographer, cake, flowers, dress and a helicopter in New Zealand.”

DOESN’T HAVE TO BE JUST 1 DAY.

“I'm still celebrating 3 months later.” You can always do a multi-day elopement instead of squishing an adventure all into one day.

YOU CAN DO WHATEVER YOU WANT.

We had a honeymoon instead of a ‘wedding’.” Hell yeah! Big focus on the relax and action. See what I did there? ;) For some of you out there all you want is me to capture everything in the most alluring way, and an officiant to speak some words and witness the signatures on the paper. Then, BAM! Back to the natural splendor. Enjoy a coffee you grabbed from my favorite local shop:Fogtown from the thermos as you take in the view of your elopement spot with no rush. Some quiet time for just the two of you - I’ll disapear. This isn’t a day long photoshoot. It’s your wedding day. Maybe I swoop back in an hour as you read some personal vows to each other.

TIMING IS IN YOUR CONTROL.

“The first two weeks of being married only my husband and I knew..
then we told family...
Then we told friends.
Then we had our "cocktail reception" one month afterwards.”

This is my favorite thing! Keeping a little secret only the two of you know is kinda hot!

KEEP IT SIMPLE.

“Just elope somewhere beautiful and have a little cocktail hour after for close family and friends.”